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Illustration: Alex Mellon/The Guardian Over the past few months, I have observed changes in my son’s behaviour. He is 15 and his father and I separated when he was nine. He keeps appearing naked in front of me “accidentally”. I feel a little uncomfortable seeing my son naked but I understand at his age it’s purely because of the hormones. His father lives abroad but never calls or comes to visit. So I am the one teaching him hygiene. That has done nothing so far as he leaves his “stained” clothes for me to clean and his room smells off anytime I enter it. He goes three to four days without changing clothes. We live in a three-bedroom apartment and he doesn’t cover himself after coming out of the shower, which can be visible from the living room. He keeps giving off expressions that he is embarrassed but I can see that he is doing it intentionally. I need a way to confront him about this without making him upset. I have never dared to check his computer but more than once he tried to watch pornography on the TV in the living room. When I entered the room he would frantically try to turn it off, and we both pretended I saw nothing. I’ve been meaning to tell him that these things are better done in private but I don’t have anyone in my life other than him and I don’t want to make our relationship awkward. He is not depressed; he regularly has friends come over and is very active in sports and school. Over the last few days I have observed him get quieter – it may have been because I told him to clean his undergarments himself. At this point I’m not entirely sure what’s going on and it’s getting extremely frustrating. Hormones can make teens do funny things but on the whole it doesn’t make them appear naked in front of others, especially not parents. At this age they actually become far more self-conscious. I went to consultant clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst Dr Stephen Blumenthal with your letter. He said it was great that you’d reached out. “Adolescent boys are at high risk of mental health issues. So this could be an indicator that either something internal is going on for your son (a mental health issue) or something external – ie something has happened to him and he is communicating this in his behaviour. It sounds like your son is almost crying out for something to be seen, and talked about.” You’re afraid of making things awkward, but things are already awkward I felt your son’s behaviour was very provocative – he’s trying to get a reaction out of you. Both Dr Blumenthal and I picked up on how isolated you feel and also how scared you are to say something. But you need to. You say you’re afraid of upsetting him and making things awkward, but things are already awkward. It’s a real shame his father isn’t involved but we can’t change that. Is there any other trusted male figure? Dr Blumenthal felt your situation “is too dyadic and needs some kind of triangulation. It’s challenging raising a boy as a single mother, especially during adolescence.” Maybe the extra person is someone you bring in to help support you if there isn’t an obvious trusted candidate to talk to your son. Bringing up important issues needn’t lead to alienation. Would it help if we told you your son would probably benefit from an opportunity to talk and be given boundaries? There’s nothing wrong with asking for appropriate behaviour in the house. You can be honest and say, “Look, this is awkward but …” You can ask him not to walk around naked – not because there’s shame in it but because it’s not appropriate. You can ask for doors to be kept closed and for people to knock before going into each other’s bedrooms when changing. And for public screens to be used appropriately. You can explain that his room is his to do with what he wants but you will clean his clothes if he puts them in the laundry basket. I wouldn’t personally worry about him not changing his clothes or ask him to clean his underclothes either, not without tackling the other stuff first. All of this is a reasonable request. You should ask if anything is bothering him. And you can keep asking this periodically and tell him he can come to you with problems (if that’s true). Bring some light – and confidence if you can – to this situation. And please get some support for yourself. Every week, Annalisa Barbieri addresses a personal problem sent in by a reader. If you would like advice from Annalisa, please send your problem to ask.annalisa@theguardian.com. Annalisa regrets she cannot enter into personal correspondence. Submissions are subject to our terms and conditions. The latest series of Annalisa’s podcast is available here. https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2024/oct/11/my-15-year-old-son-keeps-appearing-naked-in-front-of-me-accidentally
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An adult Eurasian dotterel. Photograph: Nature Picture Library/Alamy It’s a bright autumn day as I make my way up by steep paths lined with drystone slate walls through the outskirts of this old quarrying town, making for the high tops of Y Carneddau, the largest land mass over the 3,000ft contour south of the Scottish Cairngorms. Soon I’m at the fridd wall into the mountain pasture. I wave to some climbing friends at play on the Caseg boulders and set my face to the unremitting grind up the spur of Gyrn Wigau. At its top the gradient eases and I race across to the old path curving in from the north, rounding Drosgl and Bera Bach to head for the summit shelter on Foel Grach. With my back to its wall and my rucksack for a cushion, I take out my glass and scan across the rough ground ahead of Gwaun y Garnedd. Sure enough, there is movement among the stones and club mosses, scurryings and peepings. This is nesting territory for one of the prettiest and most idiosyncratic of our native waders – the dotterel (Charadrius morinellus). That name suggests foolishness. When I head on towards Carnedd Llywelyn and sit down among these barrenlands, the avian seethe among the stones resolves into a “trip” – the collective noun for a migrant flight of dotterels – the tameness of which is exceptional. They disappear into my rucksack, sit in my lap, peck at my packet of sandwiches. Their tameness was a danger to them in previous times when they were esteemed a great delicacy. I merely look on with love and amused admiration as my sandwiches are torn apart and rapidly disappear. “Your need greater than mine,” I murmur, as another piece of sardine disappears down a dark gullet. The hen birds are much more colourful, attractive and bold (in both the English and Irish senses). I pick one up and address her: “Shall you be good today, or shall you be bold?” Her bright eye gleams. I can imagine her responding, “I’ll be bold, mister!” Y Carneddau range, Snowdonia. Photograph: Alison field I put her down, and she’s straight back at the sardines – better fare than spiders, I’m sure. The Irish field-naturalist Desmond Nethersole-Thompson in his Collins monograph on this lovely bird describes years of trooping with his wife and six children up to high places in the Cairngorms to study this gorgeous little bird, the male of which does the rearing and chick-feeding. There’s a pro-feminist for you! I may have put the hen down, but there she is, unabashed, probing for crumbs around the wreckage of my sandwiches. Why would I begrudge her, when she has the long flight ahead to her winter quarters in the Maghreb? My youngest son is off to Spain for the climbing this winter. Wouldn’t I make sure that he was well fed before his departure? https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2024/oct/12/country-diary-your-need-greater-than-mine-i-murmur
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The Senate side of the US Capitol is seen in 2019 [J Scott Applewhite/AP Photo] One race has dominated this year’s election cycle in the United States: the battle between Kamala Harris and Donald Trump to win the White House. But on November 5, Americans also will vote to fill other key posts outside the presidency. Many of those races will determine who controls Congress, an important lever of power. One-third of the US Senate is up for grabs, as well as the entire House of Representatives. That amounts to 34 seats in Congress’s upper chamber and 435 in the lower one. But why are representatives voted on every two years — and senators every six? And why aren’t all 100 seats in the Senate contested at once, like in the House? Staggered races in the Senate The answer goes back to the country’s founding, when the men who wrote the US Constitution decided to base Senate elections on a “three-class system”. According to a Senate factsheet, “at the start of the first session of Congress in 1789, senators were divided into the three classes by lot with same-state senators assigned to separate groups”. The first group saw their term expire in two years, the second in four and the third in six years. “Subsequent elections to all classes were for a full six-year Senate term,” the factsheet explains. The idea was to give stability to US politics. As a result of the Senate’s staggered voting system, two-thirds of the senators remain in their posts every time a national election happens, once every two years. How does this compare to the House of Representatives? Things are different in the lower chamber of Congress, where all of its 435 members serve two-year terms and are up for election at every vote. Having to stand for re-election every two years makes members of the House more vulnerable to losing their seats. Nevertheless, some representatives have been in the House for decades: Former House Speaker Nancy Pelosi, for example, has served for 37 years. What could happen on November 5? The Democratic Party currently has a thin grip on the Senate. The party and allied independents hold 51 seats, compared with 49 seats held by Republicans. To take control of the chamber, Republicans need a net gain of one Senate seat if Trump defeats Harris in the presidential race. That’s because the vice president acts as the tie-breaking vote in the Senate. If Republicans win the White House, Trump’s running-mate JD Vance would fill that role and vote with Republicans. If Harris wins — giving her vice president, Tim Walz, that tie-breaking power — then Republicans would need a net gain of two Senate seats to gain control. Of the 34 Senate seats being contested next month, 23 are held by Democrats or independents. According to recent polls, it will likely come down to a few Senate races that appear to be neck-and-neck, including in the swing state of Michigan. The Republicans, meanwhile, are hoping to defend their control of the House of Representatives. Currently, there are 220 Republicans in the House, compared with 212 Democrats — with more than a dozen races considered toss-ups. https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2024/10/11/why-are-only-some-us-senate-seats-up-for-grabs-what-to-know-in-500-words
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People inspect the damage at the site of an Israeli air strike in Beirut, Lebanon, on October 11 [Louisa Gouliamaki/Reuters] The government of Nicaragua has announced that it will break diplomatic relations with Israel, adding to the country’s growing isolation on the global stage amid its war in Gaza. Nicaraguan Vice President Rosario Murillo announced the move to state media on Friday after the country’s Congress passed a resolution calling for action after the one-year anniversary of the Gaza war on October 7. Murillo, who is President Daniel Ortega’s wife, said her husband instructed the government to “sever diplomatic relations with the fascist and genocidal government of Israel”. The announcement is largely a symbolic one, since Israel does not have a resident ambassador in the Nicaraguan capital of Managua and relations between the two nations are nearly nonexistent. Still, the announcement comes at a time when Israel is under growing diplomatic scrutiny amid a brutal campaign in Gaza and expanding attacks across the Middle East, including in Lebanon. The death toll in Gaza has spiralled past 42,000 people, and thousands more have been killed in the bombing campaign in Lebanon, many in the last few weeks. The Nicaraguan government condemned Israel’s war in Gaza on Friday and said the fighting now “extends against Lebanon and gravely threatens Syria, Yemen and Iran”. Opposition to the Gaza war has been relatively widespread in Latin America, where leftist leaders in countries such as Brazil, Colombia and Chile have emerged as outspoken critics of Israel. The Palestinian mission to the United Nations announced on Friday that those three nations had helped spearhead a letter of support for UN Secretary-General Antonio Guterres, whom Israel declared persona non grata last week. Colombian President Gustavo Petro cut diplomatic ties with Israel in May, calling the administration of Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu “genocidal”. Brazilian leader Luiz Inacio Lula da Silva also recalled the country’s ambassador to Israel that same month, and he likened the war in Gaza to the Holocaust. For its part, the Ortega government submitted a request to the International Court of Justice (ICJ) to halt German arms sales to Israel, an effort the court rejected in April. Nicaragua has faced its own problems with growing diplomatic isolation in Latin America, as Ortega and his allies step up repressive actions against dissidents and opponents of the government. https://www.aljazeera.com/news/2024/10/12/nicaragua-breaks-diplomatic-ties-with-israel-amid-ongoing-gaza-war
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Nick movie: THE DAY OF THE JACKAL Time: Movie Trailers Source Netflix / Amazon / HBO: N/A Duration of the movie: Trailer:
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