[Lifestyle]How to Argue With Teachers

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 [1] Choosing Your Battles

Pick arguments that you can defend well. Make sure your argument is related to the coursework or about how you’re doing in the class. Avoid starting any arguments about personal subjects or things unrelated to the class since they could be distracting. Pick an argument that you can easily defend with facts rather than your own opinions.[1] For example, don’t start an argument about a seating arrangement because you want to sit next to a friend. Something you could argue about is changing a seating arrangement if another student is bothering or cheating off of you. You can also talk to your teacher about how you’re performing in class, such as a missed assignment you’d like to turn in or a bad grade you want them to raise.

 Plan your arguments ahead of time to anticipate your teacher’s responses. Split a piece of paper into 3 columns. Write down the main arguments you want to address in the leftmost column. Brainstorm what you think your teacher will say to each argument and write them down in the middle column. Try to come up with a response to what you think your teacher will say and fill in the rightmost column.[2] For example, if you want to turn in an assignment late, you may write down, “I had a lot of other homework,” in the left column. The middle column may read, “You should have planned better.” Finally, the right column may read something like, “I should have planned better, but I had a game last night and wasn’t able to complete it.”

Ask your teacher to meet with you privately. Talk to your teacher after they’re done giving their lesson so you don’t interrupt them. Let them know that you have concerns you want to talk about and see if they have time to talk in private. If they don’t have time immediately, ask if you can come back during an off hour or if you can schedule an appointment with them so you can have a discussion.[3] For example, you may say, “Mr. Smith, would you have time to talk after class today in your office?” See if your teacher is available during a lunch period so you both have time to talk within school hours.
[2]Presenting Your Argument

 Explain the situation that you disagree with to your teacher. Once you’re with the teacher in private, calmly talk about your main arguments. Speak with a clear voice and present your arguments and why you think you’re right. Use “I” statements instead of “you” statements to avoid placing blame on your teacher. Maintain eye contact so you can connect with your teacher and show them you care about the subject.[4] For example, you may say, “I know your policy on turning in late work, but I would like to turn this assignment if I can.”


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